[info_box]FETISHWEEK covers the best BDSM News and most interesting fetish links of the last week. I am actively accepting news, press releases, personality profiles, and review items for both FETISHWEEK and The Fetish Show. I am particularly interested in topics related to BDSM/kink/fetish, but also alternative art/photography/modeling, sex, burlesque, fashion, relationships, events and more. I can get your story out to a much wider audience in a way that is positive and respectful. Contact me now: dirk@dirkhooper.com [/info_box]
One of the most rewarding things about compiling these stories for FETISHWEEK is when you run into an article like “Good Pain versus Bad Pain: BDSM and Chronic Pain” by Krissy Novacaine (below in the Fetish Fab Five). The writer gives us a very personal tale about how BDSM has helped her deal with the pain of fibromyalgia. I highly recommend reading it.
What you’re not going to get from the mainstream media, or from porn, or from runaway best sellers, is that BDSM can be either physically or mentally healing to some of the players. Yes, BDSM can also offer very hot sex, but there are many people who encounter something deeper.
I know from experience that the intense relationship between a dominant and a submissive can provide a framework for positive growth for both players. I’m not suggesting that BDSM is a panacea, but I’ve seen some incredible things happen with my own partners, and I’ve had my own success stories as well.
Ignorant people who condemn BDSM as abusive, demented, or harmful need to read Krissy Novacaine’s article. The way she has used her kinky relationship to tackle her problem is much more typical than most people think.
What about you? Have you used BDSM as an alternative way to heal? Have you seen it work for others? Tell me your story in my comments below or write me directly at: dirk@dirkhooper.com
Dream hard,
Dirk Hooper
August 13, 2012
Fetish Fab Five: The Top Five Kinky Stories of the Week
1. Good Pain versus Bad Pain: BDSM and Chronic Pain « Gender & Sexuality « Sex and Society
2. Advice: Is the Dominatrix real or fake? | ChicagoNow
3. 7 Studies That Only Proved That Scientists Are Perverts
4. The Sinful and Wicked Mistress: BDSM Lifestyle Versus Play
5. So, You Read ‘Fifty Shades’, and Now You Want to be a Sub… « Safer Sex « Sexual Health
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News
- BDSM books topping book sales
- Comment: Prosecutors, extreme porn and 50 Shades of Grey
- 50 Shades of Grey Has Propelled Pornography and Sadomasochism to a New Level of Public Awareness – Huffington Post
Articles
- When Those Boots Come On « Culture « Sex and Society
- Thinking Kink: The Right to Play With Race | Bitch Media
- FIRST MEETING with a french girl … wanna be captive Miss ?
- BDSM for dummies: why the desire to surrender is completely okay | Daily Loaf
- Why does Gender matter? « Gender & Sexuality « Sex and Society
- 5 Myths About Kinky Sex From ’50 Shades Of Grey’ [EXPERT] | Kali Williams | YourTango
- ‘Fifty Shades of Grey:’ As Women Read Erotica-Based Books, Men Struggle to Satisfy Kinky Demands
- Will Ferrell and Zach Galifianakis Audition for ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’
- Meet Onya Cox – The Woman With the Glowing Vagina Tattoo [PHOTOS]
- So You’re Thinking About Using a Strapon – The Silken Trap
- Mollena Williams on Kinky Roleplay, Race Play, Taboo Fantasies, and Being a Slave » Tristan Taormino
- Kink Ain’t no Nine to Five: 5 Things to Know About Working for Them
FemDom
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- Cybill Troy – New Pictures On Site | Adult Chatlines & FemDom News, Mistress & Fetish Pictures
- The Sinful and Wicked Mistress: The Slave’s Duties
- Mistress Nikita – New Pictures | Adult Chatlines & FemDom News, Mistress & Fetish Pictures
- Who’s talking about me? | Mistress T
- Mistress Lola – New Pictures On Site | Adult Chatlines & FemDom News, Mistress & Fetish Pictures
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- The Sinful and Wicked Mistress: Financial Slavery – by Dr Sue
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Instruction and Definition
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- Sexual objectification – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
- Fisting and God’s Will
Kinky Blogs
Entertainment and Erotica
- A BHoF 2012 Retrospective, by The Stage Door Johnnies
- Boas, Pasties, and Parenting : Pin Curl Magazine
- The 5 Hallmarks of Feminist Porn « Culture « Sex and Society
- DWC desires (a male CP subs story): The Visitor (a fiction story)
- Krystal Shannan: Harley DeLuca ~ Writing BDSM
- An Interview with spanking fiction author Celeste Jones… | Cara Bristol
Art, Photography, Modeling and Fashion
- Photos: Red Canape by Lyubomir Sergeev
- Modern Pin-Up Girls! Lingerie Show in Paris | FashionTV HOT – YouTube
Reviews
- BDSM Book Reviews » Blog Archive » Review: Open Season by Cassandra Curtis
- BDSM Book Reviews » Blog Archive » Review: Carnal Machines: Steampunk Erotica edited by D. L. King
Advice
- Advice for a vanilla woman whose boyfriend wants her to dominate him « Delving into Deviance
- Advice: Where to Start With BDSM? | Madison Kink
Alternative, Goth, Fetish and Bondage Models
- New shots of me in Luxury latex by Kim West ! amazing latex…
- Rubber & Latex: Love & Death Project
- Deep Down & Kinky • Long-time DD&K favourite Susan Wayland is back
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Thank you very much for including a link to my piece in your round-up. I am honoured to find myself amongst such impressive company.
Mollyxxx
Absolutely my pleasure Molly. You always present good stuff!
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